What we have come to accept as “normal human behaviour” is based and founded on fear. Where we are attempting to make sure all the time that “everything is ok” “Normal Human Behaviour” has become the ‘art’ of “smoothing things over” and attempting to “make a fucking pretty picture out of everything”. “Trying to paint things in the best possible Light”. “Agreeing with each other” as to “not upset anyone”. Attempting to keep up some kind of ‘equilibrium’ where everything is ‘happy’ and ‘ok’. No One really communicates at all ‘for real’. No One knows how to communicate for real. And when one try and communicate for real, all that it is met with is resistance “oh my god, this person isn’t talking about the weather” “oh my god, smile and laugh, smile and laugh” all a reaction out of fear. Because within communicating for real, the entire, structure, the network of our world is being ripped apart. Because one integral element we have used to “create our world” to “build it up” is in our communication with others, in how we speak and interact. No body goes and hangs out in a coffee shop and actually discusses the core of themselves and actually talk about Real Shit. Our fabric of our world is woven out of superficial nonsense so to speak. The common foundation of our words is Fear, not an understanding of who we are as equals. One immediately go into resistance when being faced with “real communication” because it is so rare. One do not know how to respond, or even better, how others will respond. I mean, what is Awkwardness but a kind of fear. Fear of what someone else might think or say, fear of what they might find out about me, fear of exposing all the secrets and lies that I have been holding, what I ACTUALLY think about them. Lies Lies Lies, that is the Foundation of Ourselves and the Foundation of our World. It is how we interact and communicate with each other day to day, That is quite a fuck up. That 24 hours 7 days a week 365 days a year, we exist within our world and our lives, LIEING to each other. That is why it is called LIE-F, No one speak the truth of themselves – Because it is not cool. It is not accepted. The world is messed up and it requires to be changed.
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